Why scrolling through feeds can feel more exhausting than reading a book
Rapidly changing feed content may increase task switching and decision-making, which can make scrolling feel mentally tiring.
Relationships & Society
Relationships, identity and social behaviour, including how institutions and technologies reshape the way people live together.
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Sellers admit flaws more than buyers expect in used gadget sales
Across five studies of secondhand-market haggling, sellers were often more candid than buyers expected. Three minutes of small talk before the haggling narrowed the gap, and so did asking buyers to think about the seller's conscience first.
People who say please and thank you automatically learned kindness early
The difference between performing politeness for authority and treating service workers as fully human often comes down to lessons learned before you could remember them.
Stranded at a gas station thousands of miles from home, she found herself
What happens when your plans collapse, your phone dies, and you're stranded at a gas station thousands of miles from home—and it's the best thing that could've happened.
People who take offense at everything may be protecting wounded dignity
Chronic offense-taking isn't performative outrage—it's a trauma response masquerading as oversensitivity.
People who catch every mood shift aren't oversensitive, they're neurologically precise
Small studies suggest differences in emotional processing. They do not establish neurological precision or a level of social accuracy unavailable to most people.
Parents who repair their mistakes build stronger bonds with children
The deepest parent-child bonds aren't forged through perfect moments, but through rupture and repair—when parents misstep, recognize it, and return.
Kind people without close friends aren't hard to love, they're often just lonely
The loneliest people are often those who've mastered the art of being needed—but never quite learned how to let others reciprocate.
People who are always on time are often running from a quiet fear
Chronic punctuality might say less about obsessive control than about a deeper fear of what lateness would reveal.
Rare visits from adult children may signal unmet childhood needs, not indifference
Two visits a year. Three, if a birthday lands on a round number.
Irritability in old age may signal deeper loss of independence
What looks like stubbornness may actually be the last stand against losing autonomy—and every small concession feels like surrender.
Epictetus: Your mind disturbs you more than reality ever will
Our minds are more dangerous than any external threat—and we keep handing them loaded weapons.